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He's too big
| Sat, 04-05-2008 - 11:43pm |
I never thought I'd post THIS! My boyfriend of 6 months and I are (attempting) to have regular sex but it's just too painful for me!
I bought lubricant and sometimes we douse both of ourselves down to try to ease some of my pain, and it still doesn't always help.
The only things that do help are taking some ibuprofen before we have sex or being drunk (lol!) because then I just don't really notice the pain - but still, if we try to go at it the next morning or even the next night, I'm very sore.
Oddly, it's usually just my left side that hurts the most, which really has no explanation to me.
Anyways, any other suggestions? I love my bf very much, and I'm very turned on by him, but jeeez it hurts!

How much foreplay are you getting?
I meant the left side for my vagina yes. It feels like a tear but it just seemed strange that always that side would tear. Thanks for the website recommendation, I'll check it out.
Welcome to the board, supastar3000.
You've already gotten some good advice from Sakura, and she's right -- sex shouldn't be painful. Usually, pain is your body's way of telling you that something is wrong. Seeing your gyn is really the best way to find out what could be wrong, but these articles might give you some insight as well:
Why is Sex Painful?
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/sxarousal/0,,pscp,00.html
Painful Sex: Causes and Cures
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/sxarousal/0,,3frw,00.html
Sex: What is Causing Discomfort During Intercourse?
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/sxarousal/0,,77m5,00.html
Vaginal Pain from Penetration
http://yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/vaginal-pain-from-penetration.html
Let us know if you found the articles helpful, and keep us posted on how things are going.
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and have had enormous success in the art of enlarging human beings genitals.
Since they seem so proficient in working with undersized men, perhaps one or more of them would be privy to the secrets involved in solving your dilemma, as well.
A simple search of this board might prove helpful.
anyways, the articles were good as was the site. nothing new really. i'll just work on slowing him and myself down so that i can try to be relaxed. thanks ivillage :)