he's too big...

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Registered: 11-08-2005
he's too big...
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Tue, 03-27-2007 - 1:23am
This is rather embarrassing...but I'm dating someone who I really want to give head to...BUT, I have a small mouth, and, well, he's not so small. So I'm nervous. How can I make this still enjoyable for him?
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 2:07am
Why would it NOT be enjoyable for him? As long as you don't bite him, he'll be fine with it. Ask him what he likes, because all guys are different.....
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Registered: 12-19-2006
Tue, 03-27-2007 - 10:34am

You can easily let your hands and tongue do a lot of the work. Use one hand as if you are giving him a hand job, and concentrate your mouth on just the head of his penis. Make sure you use lots of lubrication (or saliva) and that both your tongue and your hand come into contact with his glans fairly frequently. If you are going to put his penis into your mouth, cover your teeth with your lips to keep from scratching him.

Another thing that may work well is to begin performing oral on him before he has an erection. This way his penis will be smaller and he will be able to feel all of those sensations (within your mouth, sucking, etc.) while he becomes erect. As he grows, just back your mouth off and introduce your hand. If you have difficulty finding a way to find him without an erection, try shortly after intercourse while he is recovering. The sensation should be quite pleasant for him.



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Registered: 04-21-2004
Mon, 04-02-2007 - 6:22pm
Treat his penis like a lolly pop. Focus on the head and underside. Use your hands and play with his balls. Run your tongue around his balls. Blow lightly over the whole area. There's a world of things you can do with a penis besides trying to deep throat it or take it all in your mouth.

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