he's watching porn while I'm asleep next to him?

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Registered: 12-15-2013
he's watching porn while I'm asleep next to him?
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Sun, 12-15-2013 - 10:04pm

Hi, so last night my guy and I went out for drinks etc and I fell asleep. In the middle of the night he woke me up with sex, which made me feel like he was incredibly attracted to me. Then this morning I found that he'd been loooking at porn on his phone - the last site opened was a "teen" (that was what it said) having a 3 some with 2 guys. He told me he wanted to fall asleep so he found something visual to stimulate him then had sex with me. I feel kind of crushed. He says one of the things he likes is a catergory of old men porn where they have sex with younger females. Is this all normal? He didnt think it was a big deal. And I feel really hurt, and just used. Any feedback would be appreciated. Thanks! : )

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Registered: 11-02-2007

I wouldn't be too worried.  Just talk to him.  Be frank and talk about how this makes you feel.  Everyone has their thing that turns them on.  The key is that he wanted to have sex with you.  My spouse and I watch porn together, sometimes we watch it separate then get it on.  Talk to him.