Hickies-Aren't we too old for this?!
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Hickies-Aren't we too old for this?!
| Mon, 08-30-2004 - 2:17pm |
I'm really frustrated. Both my boyfriend and I are "over 30". On Saturday we were together and we made love. After we were done he looked at me in disbelief. Apparently he had given me a hickie on my neck. I had no clue. He wasn't sucking on my neck or doing anything out of the ordinary. I went to look in the mirror and this thing is huge! Two days later, it is still there. Thank goodness I have no where to be today but I'm frustrated and somewhat angry. Aren't we too old for this? You hear about hickies with teenagers, but I've never heard of adults having this problem. No amount of makeup will cover this thing up, it's just that red and big. Forget a scarf or turtleneck, it's about 80 degrees outside.
I'm not really mad at him for it, it's not like he intentionally did it, but I'm upset because I feel like he put me in a situation I don't want to be in. I can't leave the house!!! LOL
I'm not really mad at him for it, it's not like he intentionally did it, but I'm upset because I feel like he put me in a situation I don't want to be in. I can't leave the house!!! LOL

Leticia
~~~ He wasn't sucking on my neck or doing anything out of the ordinary. ~~~
I'm wondering if it's not a hickey and possibly a bruise??
Do you bruise easily?
When was the last time you had your blood checked?
Maybe you have low iron?
Maybe this something you want to bring to your doctor's attention?
I don't know.. If someone was sucking on my neck.. I think I'd know it..
And you stated that he wasn't. So, I'm wondering if it could be something
else.
Have you noticed any other bruises?
Is it possible that it happened in some other way? (I can't imagine HOW!) If you do bruise easily, as the other poster suggested, I'd say you should have it checked out by a doctor.
For some of us, YES, LOL!! For others, maybe not.
When the Mrs. & I are goin at it, sometimes a little...something...during necking will cause a jerky type of reaction that may leave a little bruise at times. Heck, we've still got bruises on other parts of bodies too, LOL!! Just get carried away I guess, we're guilty. ;D
I have NO problem whatsoever with being "branded" as hers. I myself just couldn't show it off enough for my own liking anyway, lol! If people get the impression that our marriage is still fun and wild because of a little bruise here or there, then by all means!, LOL!!
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