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like him too much??
| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 12:20pm |
This morning my bf told me that he thought I liked him too much! What does this mean? I asked if he wanted me to like him less and he said, "no, come here and give me a hug." But I am very confused about this. Does he think I like him more than he likes me or is he insecure about something or uneasy about the seriousness of our relationship. Please help I am so confused. Thanks

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Leticia
I wouldn't call him a boyfriend, I'd call him a Friend with Benefits, one who has benefits anywhere he wants them.
Maybe he was just kidding around....or maybe he's feeling pressured, or needs some space. Only he knows what he meant.
Partially I say this because, to be honest, although I didn't realize he had just slept with someone else that day last week, we had wonderful, incredible, deeply intimate sex later that evening ... so I have nothing to complain about. He was hard as my forearm and deposited his typical huge load in my mouth after screwing me silly for what seemed like ages. My fish got an eyeful; I sucked him off right in front of the aquarium! I don't know too many men who can totally satisfy two women on the same day just hours apart but he apparently can (I assume the earlier one had at least half as good a time as I did!!). The only thing that was slightly gross was ... well, let's not even go there. ;-)
I'm not complaining. And I don't feel mad or sorry for myself. It's not like I got less because someone else got something too (which is one of the points raised in the _Ethical Slut_ book btw) ... a key realization for me. I adore him & positively worship his penis, he's easy to talk to and totally honest, has a wonderful sense of humor, is extremely bright, kisses like an angel, is pretty ambitious but not at all caught up with himself (and the "aw-shucks" thing _kills_ me)! So there's not a problem, and that's all I was pointing out to the OP.
what i meant by boundaries is having limits to what you are willing to accept and that it's okay to be uncomfortable when people pass those boundaries.
i don't think you are being completely honest with yourself.
Leticia
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