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like him too much??
| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 12:20pm |
This morning my bf told me that he thought I liked him too much! What does this mean? I asked if he wanted me to like him less and he said, "no, come here and give me a hug." But I am very confused about this. Does he think I like him more than he likes me or is he insecure about something or uneasy about the seriousness of our relationship. Please help I am so confused. Thanks

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Ctara, may I offer a different view?
I can just imagine him sitting there, feeling fabulous
> You post repeatedly about this guy, and always feel the need to mention how hot you are > and how cool you are with everything. I don't think you are either. You call him your
> BF, but GTB was right. You are only friends with benefits. I think you are setting
> yourself up to be hurt by this guy and you know it, and that's why you feel the need to > defend your position when no one had even questioned it. I am not sure who you are
> trying to convince, us or YOU.
Where did you get that I am jealous of you? I haven't even met you. It's exaclty things like that which make you seem so insecure. You don't like what I said, so you say I am jealous of you. Someone who is secure would not do that, they wouldn't need to.
>>Not quite sure why you seem annoyed with me though, and if that's so I certainly 'pologize.<<
I am not annoyed with you. I was adding my 2 cents to the thread, that's all.
Leticia
Leticia
Idea 1 was, "I have just seen jealously wreck too many great people." So, I'm tryin' my best to never again be that, to my SO or his other girls. It feels GREAT not to be -- you don't corrode from the inside out ...
Idea 2 was, you'd asked if I was trying to convince YOU or ME that I was totally unstressed. And I said, "probably both, at least to some degree."
Peace! Peace!! I only kidding about the dummy thing, yannow? We're still pals, right? ;-)
Wasn't angry, just seeking clarification.
Leticia
Christy, I don't suppose that you are a fellow Aussie?
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