Him on top

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Registered: 10-01-2006
Him on top
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Sat, 02-17-2007 - 10:53pm

Hi all!

I really like when my bf is on top during sex. The problem is that he gets tired easily in that position which is strange because he's very athletic. He's a big, strong guy so why do his arms get tired so quickly? It's like he loses momentum. It feels really good for me when he's on top but I'm losing my enthusiasm for it because I feel bad for him! How can I make it more comfortable and easier for him?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: curiousj3
Sat, 02-17-2007 - 11:40pm
If you think about it, it's like he's doing pushups.....and he gets tired. He has to hold his weight up off you, or you wouldn't be able to breathe! When he's tired, give him a break and YOU get on top....then later you can switch back. It's all about compromise. And if you're going to say you don't like being on top, or you don't know how, then just try it. Most women, when they get the hang of it love it, because they're in control, they get clitoral stimulation, and pleasure galore.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: curiousj3
Sun, 02-18-2007 - 10:19am

His arms get tired because he's supporting his weight


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