His Erection

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Registered: 02-03-2006
His Erection
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Fri, 02-03-2006 - 1:42pm
A question for both men and women.....
Believe it or not, I have not had much sexual experience with men.. (I am in my 30's) However, that all has changed, and I have started to see a man (for 2 years now) and we have great sexual chemistry. We have sex on a regular basis, and every time we do, before we even get to any genital stimulation, he is hard before we even have our clothes off. Today, I noticed that he was soft, and it took about 30 seconds of oral/manual stimulation to get him fully erect. Once there, it was no problem, and he came quickly. My question is, is this pretty normal? Maybe I am spoiled with him being hard before we even touch, but was a little taken aback that he was soft (in fact, I have never had him in my mouth when he was soft in the whole 2 years that we have been together) Do most men need that direct stimulation before they get fully erect, or do most get hard before the actual act of sex? Because of lack of opportunity, we have sex maybe once every 2 weeks, so by the time we get to be together, the "sexual tension" has built up. This week, due to luck and opportunity, we were able to be together twice in one week... is that something to consider as well? Or am I just overreacting? BTW, he is a sexually healthy male in his 30's. (Never any problem with erection in the act of sex, or any problem with ejaculating.)
Thanks!

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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: grl03
Sun, 02-05-2006 - 3:53pm
By the way, going from soft to hard in a womans mouth feels awesome.

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