his penis kills my ass!

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Registered: 11-08-2005
his penis kills my ass!
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Tue, 11-08-2005 - 11:44am
the guy im seeing has a good size penis, its quite fat and he loves to have anal sex. i used to think it was disgusting but after trying it with other guys i quite like it, the only problem is when i do it with my current patner it really hurts, i guess lubrication is the only answer but as we are quite spontanious about our sex (any where and everywhere) we often dont have any, apart from our own but it just isnt enough. help!!! i no he loves having anal sex and i want to please him but i also want to be able to walk the next day lol! any ideas??
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 1:26pm

You should never do anal without lots of lube.


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Registered: 10-29-2005
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 2:55pm
She can "lube" before meeting him.
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Registered: 01-12-2005
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 11:36pm

This may be a little more than you want to do but most adult stores have those little trial bottles of lube. Pick one and put it in your car or purse.

mb

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Registered: 07-18-2005
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 6:29am
You can buy ky jelly in individual packets. Just stick one or two in your purse and you're ready to go. I've noticed anal sex is more comfortable with a condom, too, because it makes it slide in and out more smoothly.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 9:29am

You should NEVER allow your guy to have "spontaneous" anal sex without the necessary protection! The anus isn't self lubricating like the vagina so you have zero protection against tearing. That pain indicates damage and it's just dumb to continue any act with pain!

Just because your guy loves it and you want to please him, it shouldn't require you to endure pain and suffering to do so! That's asking too much! If he wants spontaneous anal sex, then he should carry the lube on him at all times.




Edited 11/10/2005 9:37 am ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 01-03-2004
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 4:42pm

Anal can be uncomfortable to begin with even with plenty of lubrication.

My partner is not the biggest I have ever had (he certainly is the best though)We once tried it without lubrication and it was painful. The fact that it was painful made him stop immediately.

Does your guy know how much it hurts you? I love to please my partner but I know for a fact that he would not get any pleasure out of anything if it was something that hurt me.

As previous posts have pointed out. It is a very delicate area and what you are doing could cause a lot of damage.

Take care!

J x