Is His Size Bothering Him?
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Is His Size Bothering Him?
| Wed, 12-29-2004 - 12:47pm |
I know I can answer my own question because yes, it is obvious his size bothers him. But there's more to it and as a woman, I can't figure it out. He's a fairly young guy, 33, so it can't be related to being too old and losing libido. He's the kind of guy that talks about sex more than actually doing it. There have been many times where I've wanted to and it was obvious he wasn't interested. And when we do, the only thing he wants from me is intercourse. He won't let me touch him (I've tried twice and he pushes my hand away). He rarely let's me do oral, maybe 4 times since I've been with him almost 1 year and it wasn't easy to get him to finish. He has brought up Viagara a couple times thinking it would help him not get an erection, but keep it so he could last hours. I also think he purchased some kind of enlarger tool (but he hasn't said anything to me about it). He refuses to watch porn because he says he doesn't like to see other men's penises. He is the first guy I've met that doesn't watch porn. So you can imagine our sex is pretty limited. He does please me in other ways, but it just makes me wonder what's going on. When we first dated he would get upset because I couldn't orgasm during intercourse (which I never really could anyway). He would then blame himself and ask me if it was because of his size. It's not really that, but it just doesn't seem like his erection is that, well, hard. The last time we had intercourse I think he pulled out because he had lost his erection. Maybe he just has issues with himself. Any thoughts?

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