Hmmmm. Anal. A first?
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Hmmmm. Anal. A first?
| Sat, 08-21-2004 - 11:23am |
Just totally outta curiosity, you see so many posts here about anal. Is it really common or something? I ask because I've never done it, my two closest gfs -- one of whom is basically a lil' love machine -- have never done it, and my bf, who i believe has had a ton of sex in his life,* has never done it. In each case, the answer was pretty much, "well, never really wanted to, I guess I'd speak up if it suddenly struck my fancy." Bf said it wouldn't bother him to do me that way if for some reason I wanted it, but he was hilarious when he noted that he was quite clueless as to all the procedural subtleties. I think maybe I will take him up on it some day, just so that we have a "first" together.
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* doing the math in my head, he's been sexually active for 24 years, and said maybe he has averaged a couple-three times a week. That's like 2400-3600 times! That's gotta be a bathtub-full of semen or something! Lol! By contrast, I am going to roughly estimate that maybe I've had maybe a couple/few hundred makeout sessions.

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Leticia
Edited 8/22/2004 11:00 am ET ET by christy_la1
When you come to a website like this, you are more likely to run across people that have tried and enjoyed anal sex and many other things, basically because people that are here have a higher interest in sex (if they didn't, they wouldn't be here). In other words, this website would not be a really representitive slice of average America (or any society). If you took a survey here on how many people have had and enjoy anal sex, the statics would be higher than say if you surveyed your church or neighborhood.
However, anal sex has been around as long as humans have. There are a certain percentage of the population that will enjoy it and others that don't. The stigma surrounding it however, may keep many from discussing it with you or other friends. My wife and I enjoy anal sex occassionally, but it's not something that we discuss with our friends...in fact we don't discuss our bedroom activities with anyone (outside of an anonymous forum like this). So you just never know.
If you want to try it, try it...if you both enjoy it make it part of you life, if either or both of you don't like it, then don't indulge (anal sex is a little like coffee, most people have to try it a few times before they enjoy it).
Peace.
Scott.
About the whole, "bump" thing: I didn't catch on to what it meant right away so perhaps Christy didn't either. Maybe Clue-in 101 isn't a required course in American ivy league schools these days. Maybe in between swapping emails with the in-crowd someone might have forwarded a few cautionary words to Miss Princeton. Slightly less fun than ganging up to take someone down a few pegs, I know, but it would have been nice.
-Phat
Leticia
Leticia
Darling, it's not about the in-crowd sending emails - any member of this board could email me if they choose to do so.
Phat, it is in the TOS (terms of service) about masked language.
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