Hmmmm. Anal. A first?
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Hmmmm. Anal. A first?
| Sat, 08-21-2004 - 11:23am |
Just totally outta curiosity, you see so many posts here about anal. Is it really common or something? I ask because I've never done it, my two closest gfs -- one of whom is basically a lil' love machine -- have never done it, and my bf, who i believe has had a ton of sex in his life,* has never done it. In each case, the answer was pretty much, "well, never really wanted to, I guess I'd speak up if it suddenly struck my fancy." Bf said it wouldn't bother him to do me that way if for some reason I wanted it, but he was hilarious when he noted that he was quite clueless as to all the procedural subtleties. I think maybe I will take him up on it some day, just so that we have a "first" together.
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* doing the math in my head, he's been sexually active for 24 years, and said maybe he has averaged a couple-three times a week. That's like 2400-3600 times! That's gotta be a bathtub-full of semen or something! Lol! By contrast, I am going to roughly estimate that maybe I've had maybe a couple/few hundred makeout sessions.

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She experiences the most intense O's from anal, it is such a turn on to be a part of this and knowing that you are bringing your partner such feelings and enjoyment.
Just follow all the advice when you do decide to try it so that your "first" is a good experience.
And watch your mouth you bad girl ;)
A/f/a anal, I still can't get my brain around the whole thing, but maybe someday if the stars are just right.
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Edited 8/23/2004 1:54 am ET ET by cityguy666
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Edited 8/23/2004 8:36 am ET ET by christy_la1
My Dad used to say that using vulgar (unacceptable in polite society) language shows a lack of class and a lack of vocabulary. I agree. Those who think it's "cool" will grow up some day.
I will move the chat here away from the language debate and back to your original question if that's ok...
like you, by and large all my gf's are seriously anti-anal, believing that it's an 'exit only'...i tho, have always been SORT of intrigued by it, because the people who do like it...LOVE it and say how awesome it is.
recently my bf and i tried it and i would say we were mostly successful...the trouble was that entry is pretty tight so he wasn't able to get all the way in...but we WILL do it again soon (hopefully when i see him next! it's been 3WEEKS between my vacation and his...i'm going bonkers!!)
the advice i offer (and i'm sure isn't news to you if you've been reading up on it) is: LOTS of lube....and make sure it's a kind that doesn't get sticky over time cuz that's just gross! a new condom between anal and vaginal sex cuz there are certain bacterias that can cause an infection. and i would start in the spoons position- it gives you the most power to pull away if it's hurting, plus his hands are free to hold you tight, or play with your front side! but you may also want to start with fingers before letting him enter you just to help the area loosen!
good luck! and if the stars to align just right for you, i hope you enjoy it!!
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