Hold out sex for fun?
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| Tue, 06-19-2007 - 1:59pm |
Have any of you held out sex with your partner for fun? To see who can last the longest?
This topic came up this last weekend with my BF. We had sex Saturday morning. It was a very nice "take your time" kind of sex. Well, later on in the day we got to talking about seeing who could last the longest without sex. Up to one week. LOL. We usually have sex at least once every other day. I knew a week was probably the max I could go. Well, he thought for sure if we did it, that I would crack first because I have quite a high sex drive. And we got to talking about rules...like if teasing would be allowed, or masturbating. Well, all this sex talk got us a bit turned on and we ended up teasing each other quite a bit the rest of that day and Sunday. Although, we never really said if we were actually going to play this little game or not.
Well, Sunday evening it was apparent that he was getting quite horny. Hehe. It was like the fact that I was holding out was driving him crazy. I told him that I thought we were going to try to go a week, and he said okay I give in, I can't even go 36 hours. When we were finally able to have sex he got off very quickly, which isn't normal for him, and I was able to get off also. It was definitely the quickest sex session we have had to date. We were both so turned on. It was HOT!
I wonder though how hot it could be if we actually did go without for a week.


The only time we tried to hold out was for a week or two before our wedding. I know we messed up once (LOL), and I can't say it made a huge difference. We were both so tired the night of our wedding that we barely had sex! Neither of us minded, but it was interesting that we were trying to wait.
We just spent 5 days apart. To top it off, we had spent 11 days living in hotel rooms with children. Needless to say, sex wasn't happening. Once we were able to be together, it was incredible. I quickly had my first orgasm while he stimulated me manually, and he was totally lost in his orgasm. Definitely an event that will fuel our fantasies for a while to come.
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I know by the time my SO gets home from the road (his job takes him away for 5-6 days at a time) we are both ready to jump the other one LOL. We both have a fairly high sex drive and stir each other up by talking a couple of times a day on the phone. That first meeting when he gets home is always full of sexual tension :).
Course this is a fairly new relationship and we go at it like we are both 16 again (a couple of hour-long, if not longer, sessions at least a day till he leaves again) all the time he is home so I am not sure how it would be if he was around everyday.
I do know the longer I go without the easier I orgasm when I do get it. But I never really noticed it being a better one than I can get normally. Now you got me curious though LOL.
He only made it 36 hours huh? What did you win from the bet?!?