*HOT* Monogamy: Playboy Bunny's Share...

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*HOT* Monogamy: Playboy Bunny's Share...
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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 4:57pm

"Who loves ya, baby? Let your man know! In this excerpt from The Bunny Book, three Playboy bunnies spill the beans on what it really takes to keep long-term love hot. They'll share their best tips for keeping monogamy interesting and making your man fall in love with you over and over again. Use their tricks to help keep the sparks flying with your guy!"



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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 01-17-2008 - 3:57pm

Hi Rice,

Well, your question sparked me to finally go and read this article. Ummmm, the easy answer is "yes" there are real women who really do these types of things!

First, I really liked the tip about never taking your relationship for granted. I think that's important for both men and women to realize. Life can become very routine, and it's easy to fall into a pattern that does allow you to take each other for granted. Letting that happens takes all the sparks out of the relationship, which is no fun! The tip on love notes is a great way to show someone they are special to you. Most of the other things mentioned in the article are fun ways to show you care and keep your sex life energized.

I haven't shown up in a trench coat at the airport, but my DH has a very fond memory of a lunch date we had last year. I arrived, commando, with ben wa balls in and a blouse that laid just so over my exposed nipples.

I've also given hubby many peaks at things like his favorite panties or bra throughout an evening. Makes him smokin' hot!

The cell phone suggestion cracks me up -- my hubbies screen on his cell phone is a shot of my cleavage while wearing a bathing suit! On the topic of phones though, we haven't had phone sex. I can't imagine it would be our thing, but I think it works for a lot of couples.

I go on a date at least once a week with my hubby, but we don't always take the time to make that strictly about us. We do, however, have several dates during the daytime (he has a rotating work schedule) while the kids are in school. Both of us look forward to those dates and spend the entire day spoiling each other with sexual attention.

For us, a lot of this is just in fun ... for play not for monogamy. We're very committed to each other, and feel lucky to have each other. Adding the fun into the mix just keeps it exciting.





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