Hotter Sex

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Registered: 12-04-2003
Hotter Sex
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Sun, 09-18-2005 - 12:51am
How can I make my sex life better. It has become very routine. I have been married almost 9 years and have 2 boys. We both work full time Kids have sports after school ect. I am only 29 and I feels as if this is as good as it gets . My husband is the only person I have ever slept with He has numerous other partners before we were married. How can I spice it up. remember I have 2 kids in the bedroom next door Cant be loud. any suggestions I am up for it.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: k2boys
Sun, 09-18-2005 - 8:22am

By using your imagination, telling your husband what your wants, needs and desires are and finding out what his are.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: k2boys
Wed, 09-21-2005 - 9:33am

Been there, done that. My DH and I used to shower together at least a couple of mornings a week, so we got some "skin time." That always led to something else.

And don't hesitate to ask the grandparents to keep the kids at least once a month, if possible, so that you can get away together. Depending what you already do, for most parents, just having some alone time is enough to spice things up again.

Anything out of the ordinary will keep things from becoming routine. Buy a toy, surprise him in some way, and visa versa. It's not just up to YOU to keep things hot in the bedroom though.

And trust me, kids aren't scarred by hearing the occasional intimate noises of their parents! It's healthy for them to know that their parents have a private life together.

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Registered: 12-04-2003
In reply to: k2boys
Wed, 09-21-2005 - 7:04pm
I totally agree with having alone time. i have been married to my husband for almost 9 years and I still get embarrased about certain things I want to surprise him so that he knows I am still interested in sex like it was when we were dating . It was fun, spontanous I couldnt wait to see him b/c I knew I would get some. I want it to be that way again. Maybe Ill look up some funky toys and surprise him Thanks for all the advice .