how bad is it...really

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Registered: 10-06-2004
how bad is it...really
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Wed, 10-27-2004 - 12:15pm
ok-I like to go down on my boyfriend, but I am afraid to let him finish while I am doing it. Any suggestions to get over this fear?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 2:16pm

It is something YOU have to be comfortable with doing, if you're not, then don't do it.


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Wed, 10-27-2004 - 3:21pm
When I am going down on my bf he always tells me when he is about to cum. That way I can finish with a hand job if I want or I can be ready for him to cum in my mouth. I always spit it out though, I haven't been able to swallow yet.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 4:08pm
The easiest way to get over the fear is to take it little bit by little bit and see what the fuss is all about.

Start by finishing him with your hand and watch him spurt. Once you're comfortable with that you could try tasting a little of his semen off your finger. Then you could try having him ejeculate against your cheek and lips a few times but keep your mouth closed (and aim it away from your nostrils! ). From there you could let him cum between your lips and just let it dribble back down onto him rather than letting it into yor mouth properly.

Everyone does it differently and has different opinions about it. Some love having a guy cum in their mouths and enjoy the taste and texture. Some hate it. A lot of others don't necessarily like the taste or texture either way, but are happy to put up with it (so to speak) because of the fun result for the b/f.

At the end of the day its entirely up to you. Go with what you are comfortable with. It's not something that you need to be fearful of. There's nothing that you should or shouldn't be doing - you can't do anything wrong.

Probably the only thing to be wary of is that having his penis right at the back of your mouth as he ejeculates will probably make you gag. The simple answer is that most women that do let a guy cum in their mouths keep his penis to the middle or front of their mouths and have practiced it and worked their way up to that stage.