how to break it to him?
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how to break it to him?
| Mon, 09-27-2004 - 9:20am |
I have been with a guy for about 3 months now, he is 25 and I am 22. We started having sex quite soon after we started going out(about 2 weeks into the relationship). The thing is, I cannot orgasm just thru penetration, only when receiving oral sex or by stimulating the clitoris with a finger...
now, to avoid making him feel bad, I have been faking an orgasm every time. I have not allowed him to give me oral sex yet (he is more than willing) and he isn't much for the fingering. So now I feel like I should tell him that I actually can't cum through intercourse so that we can change things a little bit. But at the same time, he is HUGE on honesty(I am too but I lied about this to not make him feel bad) and I am quite afraid he will be very mad at me for lying to him like that. So I am not sure what to do. I don't want to tell him but at the same time I want to make sex more pleasurable for me as well...
now, to avoid making him feel bad, I have been faking an orgasm every time. I have not allowed him to give me oral sex yet (he is more than willing) and he isn't much for the fingering. So now I feel like I should tell him that I actually can't cum through intercourse so that we can change things a little bit. But at the same time, he is HUGE on honesty(I am too but I lied about this to not make him feel bad) and I am quite afraid he will be very mad at me for lying to him like that. So I am not sure what to do. I don't want to tell him but at the same time I want to make sex more pleasurable for me as well...

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