How Can I?

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Registered: 09-25-2004
How Can I?
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Tue, 05-10-2005 - 2:52pm

I understand that after the baby is born, I can't make love to my DH for six weeks until I've healed. That's a long time for me to without the feel of my DH's naked flesh on mine. Or feeling that amazing connection when we make love. So, what can I do to keep him pleased and cut down on as much of the sexual frustration he'll be feeling? I want this to be easy on my DH, even though having a baby isn't easy.

I'd write more, but something about thunder and lightening while using a computer doesn't seem smart..I'm not going to pull an Uncle Johnny..(My Uncle Johnny was killed because he was talking on the phone during a thunderstorm..This is WAY before I was born)

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Registered: 11-10-2003
In reply to: jenniekg
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 3:00pm
Oral..that's your only option. Don't give in to temptation unless you're turned on by the idea of getting knocked up again right after having a baby. It happens, and it happens VERY easily!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jenniekg
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 3:32pm

Jennie, believe me, once that baby is born, you'll have more to worry about than making sure that hubby's taken care of. Without much sleep, he likely won't want sex as much anyway. He'll survive for 6 wks though, they all do.

But there's no reason why you can't provide him with a warm body, a mouth and two hands to give him pleasure when needed. The most important priorities for you, at least for a while, will be taking care of that baby, 24/7, and to recuperate.




Edited 5/10/2005 3:33 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 04-08-2005
In reply to: jenniekg
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 3:36pm
Kat is correct jennie.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: jenniekg
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 4:18pm
I agree with Kat.

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