How can I make it better

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Registered: 12-08-2004
How can I make it better
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Sat, 01-01-2005 - 4:25pm
My boyfriend and I just started having sex. The sex is great but my boyfriends penis is rather thick, is a good way to put it. And this is making sex a little painful for me, will the pain lessen the more we have sex? Or is there something I can do to help make it less painful? Thanks for suggestions!
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sat, 01-01-2005 - 5:05pm

It really depends on how thick he is. If he's porn star proportions, you may never get used to it.

However, if he's on the large size of average, lots of lube and relaxation on your part will help.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 01-02-2005 - 12:49am
If he's in the "normal" range.....sex is not supposed to be painful. If you're fully aroused, relaxed, and well lubricated, it's not painful. You have to be more than just "willing"...it takes lots of foreplay to get you ready....and for beginners, it's hard to lubricate when you're nervous, and if you have pain, it's even worse...you get tight and dry. Buy some lubricant, and use it until you learn to produce enough of your own.