how can I make it up to him
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how can I make it up to him
| Fri, 08-27-2004 - 3:52pm |
This morning my bf told me that last night he tried kissing me and rubbing on me but I would just barely kiss him back and roll over and go back to sleep. I told him I must have really been sleeping hard because I don't even remember him kissing me or anything. Because we have a very good sex life, I have never turned him down for sex before (and I didn't mean to last night) I feel bad for this. Any ideas on something exact special that I can do to make it up to him.

I'm sure you already know just how right Tish is on this one, LOL! Happens to me and the Mrs. occasionally because of our work schedules. I understand YOUR situation because it just never happens to you, right? NO biggie, just explain exactly the way Tish said.
I WILL admit however, that wifey & I at times have felt bad anyway and would do something special the next day ...so I hear ya there too.
Usually we'll treat each other to a fancy dinner or just cook for one another the next morning or we'll provide that much extra special treatment in bed the next night. Body massages for us are such a part our marriage, even when it doesn't involve sex.
Cheer up though, you're one of us...expect gray hair soon, LOL!
GASP, wait a minute! TISH, do I have more grays than you do now??? Hmmm...now I'M depressed.
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You told him you were sorry, you told him you were asleep, enough already.
PS: Try waking HIM out of a sound sleep....and see how quickly HE jumps to attention!
PPS: Before someone jumps all over me for attacking a poor innocent man, let me say that I would have said the EXACT same thing if it were a man posting this about his girlfriend.
Wow, I've said "no" to sex more times than I care to remember.....and so has DH when I'm ready.
I am not a very happy camper if I'm woken up at night for sex. I'm on my feet 9 hours a day and moving the whole time and then I come home and put a few more hours in there. While I don't mind having sex *before* I go sleep, don't wake me up and expect me to be instantly and utterly aroused. More like, expect to have your head bitten off, lol.
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C h a r a c t e r
above all else
Mr. Para
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