How can you tell penis size?
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How can you tell penis size?
| Thu, 06-01-2006 - 11:01pm |
Hi all,
New to the board and have a question for girls - how can you tell the size of your BF/DH penis whether it is 5 or 6 inches or whatever? I have seen just a few myself and I can't really tell exact measurements. I have been reading on some posts here where girls talk about those specific inches about their BF's penis. Do girls measure them or is it just their best estimates?
Thanks.

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Wishful thinking, perhaps? LOL!
But my DH actually COULD last forever when he was younger. Sometimes, so long that it became uncomfortable.
Generally speaking though, you're right, the average is just a few minutes.
>>And leaving aside the issue of foreplay ( and I acknowlege totally it's importance) it's funny how most guys claim to be able to last 30 minutes or more during IC, while most women ( and most research) say it's around five minutes.<<
Yeah, I'm sure that there are things that confuse the length of time issue too. For example, I usually last, oh maybe, 5 minutes when we're usually having our 'regular' 20 minutes or so of sex before lights out. But if I *want* to last longer or if she tells me to last longer then I have no problem extending that to... well, pretty much whatever we want. 30 minutes would be no problem for me. I might get a bit puffed I suppose. I'm sure that's a bit the same for a lot of couples - unless otherwise inclined not too many guys are going to waste time and they're going to let go and cum fast.
"Actually, what we've seen over and over on this board is that some women enjoy or need to feel stretched to the absolute max to enjoy intercourse. So, really, if a woman has a very large vagina, then she wouldn't be stretched, but just have a normal fit, with an equally large guy."
Maybe some women do need to feel "stretched". But is this due to depth of vagina, and hence length of penis, or width of vagina, and hence girth of penis? Most women I've read mention girth as being more important, and so the "full" or "stretched" feeling probably has more to do with this. This also goes along with the generally recognized fact that there isn't much deep inside the vagina to be stimulated ( most women report that banging their cervix is painful). The G-spot and most of the sensitive part of the vagina is in the first few inches. Some women also get indirect clitoral stimulation from the pulling on their labial lips by the thrusting of the penis, which also suggests girth is more important than length. Not only that, but if a woman is unusually large and loose , she can improve the situation signficantly with Kegel exercises.
I still stick to my previously expounded theory that "size queens" probably don't actually orgasm from large penises, they just like the idea and the visual appeal of a big one.
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I tend to agree with your thoughts but some women actually enjoy having their cervix massaged. I'm not one of them, but nonetheless, some do.
And yes, girth likely plays more of a role in terms of actual stimulation, but overall size, length & girth, to a size queen seem to be equally important.
And that's why I think the visuals and idea of a very large erection ARE more exciting to some women than others. Just as large breasts are to some men.
I've said before, if she is already aroused before the actual stimulation even begins, well, then most of the "work" of preparing her is done for her partner. So, whether he actually knows what to do with a huge erection or not, is really immaterial since her brain has already paved the way for a satisfying experience for her.
Edited 6/6/2006 6:35 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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