how clean does your partner have to be?

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Registered: 06-24-2004
how clean does your partner have to be?
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Thu, 06-24-2004 - 12:32pm
how long does it have to be since your partner showered for you to give oral? do you have a limit? my bf showers in the am and i go down on him in the pm.

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Registered: 05-19-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 12:38pm
I LOVE giving oral, so I don't really care. I love my bf and trust him completely. I will give him oral even if he hasn't showered since the previous day.

Cathi

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 1:23pm
I don't think there are "degrees" of clean. They're either clean, or they're not! Twelve hours since a shower can be a LONG time, depending on what they've been doing all day. If they were digging ditches, they're not clean. If they were sitting & watching TV, then probably they are.

A considerate partner knows whether they're "clean" or not, and would shower or at least wash before expecting sex of any kind.

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 1:26pm
I like it when he showers right before I give him oral. but if he has showered a few hours ago that is OK too. Sometimes guys don't "wipe well" if you know what I mean. If I get any whiff of the behind, I am outta there. So showering all over helps me before sex.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 1:37pm
I like an hour or so after showering or in the shower the best! But no real preference. Just as long as he doesn't want it after his jog! lol.
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 1:38pm
I really get off on giving my girl oral. She says she loves my scent too so I don't think being expecially clean is even preferred. I also like it when she has a healthy musk .. I just enjoy getting lost in the eroticy of it all.

My little secret obsession I rarely share here is that I also love giving her a thorough rimming and even then, a little tinge can be pretty hot to me. Pretty bad I know but I can't help it for some reason ... my fetish. I wouldn't be surprised to get differing opinions on this one but if you have a similar view on it, I would like to know I'm not that alone with my kink.

Michael

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 2:07pm
I have no real preference, although there have been a few rare occasions that DH was too stinky LOL. I'm sure there have been times I have been too potent, but DH has never said anything to me.

Leticia

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 2:09pm
>>My little secret obsession I rarely share here is that I also love giving her a thorough rimming and even then, a little tinge can be pretty hot to me. Pretty bad I know but I can't help it for some reason ... my fetish. I wouldn't be surprised to get differing opinions on this one but if you have a similar view on it, I would like to know I'm not that alone with my kink.<<

How's this for a double standard, but I think I would enjoying getting it but I would never do it LOL. But, since DH has no interest for anal play on himself no worries for me LOL. I have never experienced rimming, DH is not going to go there, but it does sound like it might be pleasurable.

Leticia

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 3:27pm
It depends on different things.

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 3:30pm
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Leticia

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Registered: 10-09-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 3:37pm
For the most part, DH and I are like clockwork. We move our bowels in the am before our showers. I also use a squirt-type water bottle to rinse after I urinate, so I feel naturally fresh, not soapy fresh. I'm pretty much ready for sex anytime(including anal play). Occasionally I shower or bathe in the evening to relax, and DH complains that "I'm too clean." I totally understand where he's coming from because I absolutely love that little musky smell around his testicles too. It's manly/masculine, and just plain sexy and sets off the molten lava machine. ;-) Part of sexual arousal is in the aromas...at least for us it is.

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