how to compromise

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Registered: 11-14-2004
how to compromise
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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 11:00pm
i am newlywedded since 2 years.i want sex two x a day and he only want it 2 x a week. how we compromise it?is we do do we plans it? what if he say ok 1 x a day five days. what if he not want it than?i ask because we try it and it does not works.he still not in mood.he has low sex driver.how do compromise work sucessfuly with me not forcing his to have sex?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 11-15-2004 - 7:44am

Twice a day, everyday I would say is unreasonable for anyone especially if he works and does all the other things that go on in our daily life.


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Registered: 07-22-2004
Thu, 11-18-2004 - 5:25pm

Here's a surprise...

I AGREE WITH TISH! (LOL!)

I think its extremely important to remember just how difficult it honestly is for men to keep up with women when it comes to sex so many times.

Besides, the energy used for sex is the very energy used for work and for other activities, and even for just staying awake! So if anyone, or any man in this case, is a bit too drained or too tired for it as often as the partner is, then that situation be understood very very carefully.

When it comes to situations like that, sometimes there may not be that much of a compromise. When there IS though, then I think its perfectly reasonable to set a schedule if the approach isn't working. Scheduling sex may not be as exciting or romantic or special to some couples, but sometimes in today's hectic world, its simply necessary, ahem, especially if are the one who wants it more, lol.

:)

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