how do i blow his mind

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Registered: 08-15-2006
how do i blow his mind
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Wed, 08-16-2006 - 5:33pm
Well my boyfriend is in basic training and when he gets out i'm going to go see him and I want to do something that's going to blow his mind. I'm already going to get a sexy outfit for him and do a strip tease for him. but i need some more sexual things to do than just the avg. If u have any ideas let me know. thanks.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 10:33am
Don't overthink this. Men are pretty easy to please and in THIS particular situation, even moreso. The little things mean a lot when you've been through hell and back. So show up, be enthused, be all about him and trust me, he'll have his mind blown.
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 10:43am

Katmandoo is right! If he hasn't seen you in a couple of months, then he'll be so happy to see you he's not even going to SEE your sexy outfit, all he'll want is to get it off of you! He's not going to want to sit there and watch you do a strip tease, he's going to WANT you......NOW! That will be all the mind blowing he needs.

Sexy outfits and strip teases are for when you're together all the time....to add spice to the "everyday" things that go on.

When he hasn't seen you.......he will be so happy to see you that just BEING there will be all he needs.

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Registered: 07-31-2006
Thu, 08-17-2006 - 11:44am
I agree with the other two posts, if he hasn't seen you in months he'll really just want you. A good idea might be to hold off on the strip tease until the second time you two get together. This way you can tell him after the first time that you had something planned but you were just so excited you had to have him, and he'll get a surprise later =O) I'm sure that would make any man feel good