How do I get my man to do more oral?
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How do I get my man to do more oral?
| Wed, 06-23-2004 - 5:13pm |
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months now. And outta those 5 months he has only given me oral pleasure twice! He he does it he is really good at and drives me crazy! I at least give him oral everyday that I see him. Just recently he told me he was limited on that kind of stuff. That he can only do so much. He told me he likes to do it. But why doesnt he do it more often???? How can i get him to do more oral on me!?!?!? Someone please help this is driving me crazy?!!

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My first thought is ask him for it more often don't wait for him to give it but then again I cannot ask for it! It seems too demanding to me to ask for stuff he does not wnat to give.
You can always find another man.......!
I don't know what he means when he says that he's "limited on that kind of stuff", though. Does that mean that your pleasure will be limited? That you shouldn't ask for what you like?
Maybe you should tell him that HIS "kind of stuff" will also be "limited" from now on as well. Seriously, stop giving him oral everyday and when he asks why, tell him. Don't be shy about asking for what you want, it's the only way you'll get it.
Edited 6/23/2004 5:37 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
You need to understand that there are some men who don't LIKE to do it, even though he's good at it, and he seems to enjoy it when he does it. If that's the case, and it's that important to you, then maybe it's time to move on.
Gotta stroke the ego a little bit. Good luck!
Leticia
He may not like going down on you very much for a reason so I think that you need to talk to him a bit more about that and eliminate any good reasons. For example, I prefer my partner to have showered within an hour or two of me going down on her because I find the taste too strong - not offensive, just too strong otherwise.
If he's just being lazy then he's gotta understand that what goes around comes around.
And what's with the 'he can only do so much'? What on Earth does he mean by that? Sounds like a throw-away line to me that doesn't really mean anything but you can be use it to finish conversation about a subject.
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