how do i move when on top?

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Registered: 04-17-2003
how do i move when on top?
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Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:03pm
this is probably a stupid question, but exactly as my title says, how do i move when i am on top?

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:15pm
Up & Down!
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Registered: 04-17-2003
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:24pm
yes but how though? i mean, he can do thrust easy, really fast, but i cant seem to move that fast so it doesnt feel as good, how do i do it as fast as he does?
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:39pm
Well, I was being facetious, but I answered a similar question on the Taboo Board so here it is. I'd rather keep these type of posts over there because they fit the board better so if you are looking for racy tips and comments, check out the Taboo Board. Also, slow down - you can go fast, but also remember to slow down and try out the following:

All I can tell you is what I do when on top of my hubby. He always has one of my breasts in my mouth for starters. Either that or I make sure they are right where he can suck and lick my nipples easily. I will hump him a few good times at the beginning and let my breasts bounce around for him (which he loves), then I'll slowly let him slip out of me and hold his penis around my clitoris area and rub all around, then slip his penis back in me and back out - repeat. He LOVES this! He goes wild. I'll get off of him and kneel in front of him and give him oral, lick his balls, then jump back on top and rub his penis all over my vaginal area, then slip him in again and ride him hard.



I will also (while on top and straddling him) take his penis in my hand and guide him to my backside area and let him bounch his penis around the outside area of my anus, sometimes letting just the very tip of his penis in - just barely (to make him think for a slight moment that we will screw anally - then it's back to my vaginal area. It's all a tease.

I change and the different interactions seem to really do the trick

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Registered: 02-12-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:42pm
Well.....I can tell you for me, I don't really find up and down while I am on top to be that great. I prefer to sit flush down on him, sitting back a bit, and grinding back and forth. My fiance loves it.
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Registered: 10-22-2003
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:55pm
I agree with grinding back and forth, move all around on top of him. Up and down, doesn't really work with female on top. If I do it, it doesn't last terribly long. And going from anal to vaginal , could lead to an infection. Also, turn the other way and face his feet, also with the same grinding movement. :-)
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:58pm
Just to clarify, anal to vaginal sex is not a good idea and we don't practice that, but as I said it's a playful touch and tease to the back side - not going inside. Grinding is good, I've met more men that like the in and out tease. ;)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 5:24pm
"How do I move when on top?" In the way that gives YOU the most pleasure. And you figure that out by experimenting and trying different motions.

Most women tend to like woman superior because they can control the depth of penetration and speed of thrusting. It allows them to manage their own stimulation moreso than other positions.

Don't worry about your guy, he'll enjoy whatever you do plus the visual of you on top! This position is all about you.

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Registered: 05-04-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 5:47pm
How is girl on top taboo? and why wouldn't this disscussion fit in this message board?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 06-30-2004 - 12:11am
I agree. This is common sexual position and subjects like it are discussed all the time on this board. It IS the "Let's Talk about SEX" board, after all.
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Registered: 04-17-2003
Wed, 06-30-2004 - 5:14am
where is the taboo board?

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