How do I tell him?
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| Wed, 11-15-2006 - 4:29pm |
Ok, so this isn't about sex, but it is about intimacy, kissing, which could lead to sex, so here goes...
Ok, so how do you tell someone that you don’t like the way they kiss? I’ve been seeing this guy for about 5 weeks now. We’re taking things slowly, as we have not yet gone beyond kissing in our dating relationship. I really like him, however, I really don’t like the way he kisses me. I wouldn’t even go so far as to say that he’s a bad kisser. He uses a lot of tongue, and I really prefer a balance of lip and tongue. An occasional flicker of the tongue is fun, kind of playful. Deep probing is ok too, sometimes. However, when we kiss, he tends to like to suck my tongue, to the point where I can’t pull away, and I don’t like that! Also, it's like he won't give me a chance to kiss him back, before he's sticking his tongue in my mouth! It’s a bit too much for me. I like closed-mouth kisses just as much as open. Anywho, how do you tell someone this without hurting their feelings…or their ego? Do you even say anything, or do you try to guide them into how you like to be kissed? Any thoughs, opinions, advice is appreciated!
