how do u usually finish a sex session

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Registered: 06-25-2004
how do u usually finish a sex session
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Thu, 07-15-2004 - 1:56pm
what are the best ways to stimulate (to orgasm) a gurl that has never had one and (she wont want to try to maturbate herself).

ladies plz what are the best things u enjoy during orals..... w'll be nice if u are specific



finally.. i definately know must gurls dont cumm every time they have sex (like guys do)..... but do u actually feel satisfied without cumming... how do u feel
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 07-15-2004 - 2:46pm

<<(she wont want to try to maturbate herself)>>


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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 07-15-2004 - 3:27pm
Most women have orgasms from clitoral stimulation. BUT, if she doesn't know how, and doesn't want to learn how, there's nothing you can do to MAKE her have an orgasm. You can only help her to have one if she knows how.

If she's afraid to explore her own body, then maybe she's not ready for sex, either. That's her problem, and you can't make her do it.

Yes, women CAN enjoy sex, even without orgasms. Many women aren't orgasmic, but they still enjoy sex a lot. Orgasms are like the icing on a cake. A cake is good, even without icing, but it's even better if you put icing on it.

If you worry her about not having orgasms, it's making it that much more hard for her to have them. Leave her alone, do what you can to give her pleasure, and that's all you can do.

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Registered: 07-13-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 12:50pm
I would plan on taking your time with her, and make her feel like she is a very sexy woman... if she's romantic, really bring in nice things... rose's, etc. Maybe ask her to touch herself.