How do women LIKE to swallow??

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Registered: 11-21-2004
How do women LIKE to swallow??
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Tue, 11-30-2004 - 8:12pm

How can a woman let a guy ejaculate in their mouth and swallow it???
Sorry if this sounds immature but..EEW.

That is really gross. That's a human beings bodily fluid...why would you want to swallow it?? I don't get it...Why do men WANT women to swallow??

I'm sorry if I'm offending people but...again...EEW.

And I don't buy the whole "If you love him, you'll do it"-crap. Because that's what that is...crap. I love my bf but whatever comes OUT of his penis will not go INTO my mouth lol.

I'm not being immature I really honestly DO find it gross.

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 8:18pm

Yes, you ARE being immature.

And I guess you don't mind if your BF goes "EEEWWW!" at the thought of doing oral on you.

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Registered: 11-30-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 8:21pm
I do agree with you. I did it once, and only once. I didn't mean to, but it was either that, choke, or throw up. *laughs* My thoughts were always like "he pees from there...what if he...?" I know how stupid it sounds, but I can't help thinking it. I know, though, that I probably sound immature, too. I'm just letting you know that I'm on your side.
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Registered: 11-21-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 8:39pm

That's what I think of too. That's another reason why I get grossed out to do it.

I've never asked him to do oral on me because hey I feel just as bad. We pee from down there..and I know myself that I'm very clean but the utter IDEA of it grosses me out.

It's not being IMMATURE because I'm open to talking about it and I always discuss it with him but my initial reaction to it is eew!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 8:49pm

It's something you can either do or something you can't do.


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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 9:05pm

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Registered: 11-21-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 9:10pm
nooooo lol but we pee a lot more often than we throw up it's different lol
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 9:23pm

Easy solution if someone has


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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 9:46pm

I guess that you've never kissed someone on the hand or fingers or the lips before either. As it happens urine is sterile - no bugs. You should see what the skin on a person's hand or inside their mouth looks like under a microscope - crawling with all sorts of different things....

Yes, we pee from down there, but as already said, we can't do it when we have an erection, and as I said, the urine is sterile anyway. I can't see much difference from kissing someone on the mouth. The penis is a much more germ-free place to put your mouth than someone-else's mouth.

Because you have such an issue with bodily fluids I doubt that you will be able to see our point of view even if we try to explain it.

I also wonder about telling you b/f that he doesn't have to go down on you because you won't go down on him is such a good idea. Believe it or not guys don't usually do it because they HAVE to. They do it because they WANT to. Just because you think that it's a fair deal, he might not. He might have enjoyed going down on you and feels like he's now missing out on something that he would have enjoyed.

Of course he might be upset because you think that his penis is gross and you won't even consider giving him a BJ too.

And you've got to consider whether or not he can handle someone with such an uptight attitude about sex and how dirty it is? He might not enjoy sex if he thinks that he has to be careful about avoiding being dirty or gross with you.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 9:55pm

>>Of course he might be upset because you think that his penis is gross and you won't even consider giving him a BJ too.

And you've got to consider whether or not he can handle someone with such an uptight attitude about sex and how dirty it is? He might not enjoy sex if he thinks that he has to be careful about avoiding being dirty or gross with you.<<

This reminds me of a past relationship of mine when I was in my late teens. He thought my vulva was too gross to give oral to....and yes, I was offended. But as you've suggested, his reticence to go down reflected his general uptightness when it came to sex. In the end, his uptight attitude was partly what contributed to the demise of our relationship.

I met him again recently, and couldn't help but wonder if he'd grown up and gotten over his aversion to dirty (fun) sex. Isn't it strange the things you remember about people? While he was a very nice bloke, the thing that really sticks in my mind is how uptight he was LOL.

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Registered: 11-21-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 10:20pm

I've never said EEW I don't want to give you oral to my bf...that's rude. The way I explained it was I'm not comfortable with the idea of it. He can do whatever he wants to, to me, as long as HE wants to. I want him to do whatever he's comfortable with. And vice versa.

I find that you're contradicting yourself a big westridge..you say you wonder how he can enjoy sex when I have an uptight attitude etc. but clearly, the majority of opinions on these boards always suggest to do whatever you feel comfortable with and if the person can't except what you don't do then it becomes their loss and they're not ready to be in a relationship.

That's the idea I pick up from these boards.

But I still stand..the idea of swallowing a bodily fluid is not very appealing to me.

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