How do women LIKE to swallow??

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Registered: 11-21-2004
How do women LIKE to swallow??
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Tue, 11-30-2004 - 8:12pm

How can a woman let a guy ejaculate in their mouth and swallow it???
Sorry if this sounds immature but..EEW.

That is really gross. That's a human beings bodily fluid...why would you want to swallow it?? I don't get it...Why do men WANT women to swallow??

I'm sorry if I'm offending people but...again...EEW.

And I don't buy the whole "If you love him, you'll do it"-crap. Because that's what that is...crap. I love my bf but whatever comes OUT of his penis will not go INTO my mouth lol.

I'm not being immature I really honestly DO find it gross.

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 5:24am

The discussion seems to have digressed... anyway, I'll reply to the OP.

I think your honesty is cool. Previous posts already pointed out how semen isn't gross, it's actually cleaner than saliva. Which I completely agree with, but although men don't urinate and ejaculate at the same time, occasionally there could be a little tiny bit of urine remaining in their urethra and when they ejaculate the semen contains that little tiny bit of urine. But I don't find that gross at all, neither urine nor semen is that dirty. Personally I'm not a fan of swallowing either, I don't like the taste too much (btw, every man tastes a bit different). Oh well, I only wish they come in chocolate flavor.. :o)

I do enjoy pleasuring my man orally and being pleasured orally. You don't have to swallow or even let him ejaculate in your mouth. He could give you a "facial" (good for the skin) or cum all over your chest, both very sexy alternatives. I think most of the posters here are just giving you factual info and encouraging you to try something new. Giving and receiving oral sex are really fun... for me, especially the receiving. If he does it right (which takes some practice) you'll be in heaven, it could give you orgasm like no vaginal ever could. ;o)

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Registered: 10-07-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 8:03am

Ok,

First you receive his body fluids when you kiss, and you will swallow more fluids from kissing him then swallowing his cum. But it is your chooce. If you don't want to swallow then don't. But your swallow a lot of his fluids anyway.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 8:08am

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Registered: 11-04-1999
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 8:28am
With your aversion to someone else's bodily fluids, think twice before having children. A baby is a bodily fluid machine. lol
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Wed, 12-01-2004 - 8:42am

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 8:47am

Well...I've read on these boards where a grown man won't perform cunnilingus, and no one said that he "has" to change. I simply find it strange that when it's a woman, she's told that she should.

Not everyone looks at "swallowing" as a standard act, just as anal isn't. I'm sure that for many relationships cunnilingus or fellatio may not even be a part of their sex life, and that's fine with them. There's no law that says you have to do everything in order to have a good sex life. The best sex is done out of desire not coercion.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 8:52am
Just as many me have an aversion to cunnilingus. It's an aversion and a true one at that. Many men are grossed out by a woman's bodily fluids. If you ahve an aversion to a particular bodily fluid, then it's obvious that you don't want to do it and you won't. It makes you a person with an aversion. In fact, I know more men who won't perform oral on a woman than the other way around.
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Registered: 11-21-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 8:58am

What inhibitions??

I think swallowing a man's semen is gross and all of a sudden I have a multitude of inhibitions about sex??? Please, e-mail me, tell me what you think are my inhibitions about sex because honestly, I'd like to hear.
...Not that anybody REALLY knows anybody on these boards anyways. (provided they are not friends from outside these boards)

I think whoever, should get over the ideology of only children saying EEW and GROSS. If you think something is gross what do YOU do? Being open-minded doesn't constitute as not finding things gross.

My original point was how do women actually LIKE to swallow? Don't they become a little grossed out with that in their mouths...it's warm, bitter, slimy etc. It's not exactly what everyone would agree is the one thing we all want in our mouths. I'm asking this because I know that men sometimes become offended when women spit it out and I'm curious as to how women handle this.

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Registered: 11-16-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 9:36am

warm, bitter, slimy etc.


Besides the slimy part that sorta sounds like coffee.

==Hot Potato

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 10:18am

Men, OR women can sometimes be offended about a lot of things....if they have an insensitive partner. If you told him you're uncomfortable with it, then that should be the end of it. If you're curious how other women handle it, then obviously, you're curious about it.

There are many men who don't care WHAT the woman does with it. They're just so happy to be getting it....that it's immaterial to them what the woman does afterwards. Most men LIKE oral sex, but maybe you'll be lucky enough to be with men who don't. Even men who won't do it for their women like it done to/for them.

Just remember one thing......if and when you agree to "do it", with the caveat that he won't ejaculate in your mouth.....you will STILL be swallowing ejaculate. When a man is erect, he's usually leaking small amounts of pre-ejaculate. You won't notice it though, since it will simply mix with your saliva, and you WILL swallow it.

And as for "spitting" it out....yes, many women do that, too. I would HOPE that most of them do it quietly and unobtrusively.....rather than say "EEEEEEWWWW That's gross" while they're gagging and choking. If that's the reaction you think you'll have, then please don't do him any favors. It's the reaction, not the aversion, that would be considered immature. Kind of like a child tasting escargot for the first time....and spitting it out with a lot of sound effects, while an adult might have the same feeling about it, but would quietly swallow it, and say, "No thanks, others might think they're delicious, but I don't really care for any more".

I was never quite sure how a woman can take it in her mouth with no problem, but react with disgust at the thought of swallowing it. Whether they like it or not, some of it will be mixed with her saliva, and WILL be swallowed.

Regardless of whether you understand it or not, many women care enough about their partner that they see nothing gross about him in any way, including his bodily fluids. That also, in part, comes with maturity.