how do you keep the sex hot?
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how do you keep the sex hot?
| Wed, 02-06-2008 - 8:51pm |
Does anyone have tips for making your sex life more passionate or at least keeping it steamy. Are quickies the answer or role playing? What works for you?

Welcome to the board, ritapita25.
I think keeping things hot depends on the couple and their likes/dislikes. Hubby and I aren't into role playing, but we love quickies ... but neither of those are the only things that would keep our relationship hot. Anything becomes boring and routine if it's done over and over. Variety is the answer for us. Sometimes the variety is in the position, others it's the location, other's it's the activity.
We don't always have "intercourse", we don't always "make love", we don't always do it in our bed, or have the lights off, or wait for the kids to go to sleep, etc. There's a lot of great advice if you want to read some of the other posts here. Also, here are some articles that you will get some ideas from:
Hot Monogamy
Playboy bunnies share their tips on keeping the love alive
http://love.ivillage.com/lnm/lnmgetcloser/0,,bmxq58mm,00.html?nlcid=ls|01-10-2008|
Banish Sexual Boredom
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexinthemood/0,,drpatti_1kkm,00.html
10 Things Good Girls Can Learn from Porn Stars
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,9x7nhpjx,00.html
10 All-Time Best Bedroom Tricks
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,traceycox_b1g0g04t,00
Try some new things out, and let us know how it goes ;-)
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