how do you kno?
Find a Conversation
how do you kno?
| Fri, 07-16-2004 - 1:56am |
Hey guys! well ok this question might sound silly and im not sure if anyone will be able to exactly give me an answer but i figured it was worth a shot! Ok, well ever since i was younger i have been masterbating and at first when i start out i dont feel anything until it builds up inside me like and urge to pee and it goes really severe and then ends but im not sure if this is an orgasm or not because its been discribed as something completly different. Something more amazing then what its like to me. Does anyone have any info that might help me with this on what an orgasm really feels like as best as u can because i am really feeling confused! thanx!

If you need to ask how to recognise an orgasm, then I can safely say that you've never had one.
Following up on what Yasmin said, if you feel the need to pee, can you masturbate whilst on the toilet? I've done the deed standing in front of the toilet a couple of times (the standing sucks, but the cleanup easy). Uhm, can a woman still reach her bits comfortably while sitting on a toilet bowl?
Before you masturbate, or have sex, make it a habit to empty your bladder. Then you'll KNOW that you're not going to urinate. It's also a good practice to urinate AFTER sex to prevent bladder infections.
Sex is supposed to "feel good", and orgasms are too. It feels different for everyone, but the best analogy I've read is that it's like a sneeze. Not your normal little "achooo", but the kind that you feel coming. First your nose tickles, then you kind of "catch your breath", and you feel it coming from deep inside you. Then you sneeze, then it's over. And just as with this kind of sneeze, if you concentrate, and think about it, you can make it stop, and/or go away. If you stop and think about orgasms, they'll go away, too.
If it feels good, do it.