How do you Prefer to Play?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
How do you Prefer to Play?
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Thu, 04-05-2007 - 10:11pm

- Do you play with males, females or both?



- Do you use birth control, condoms or both?



- Do you give oral before sex, after sex or both?



- Do you have sex vaginally, anally or both?



- Do you use spit, lube or both?



- Do you like it romantic, rough or both?



- Do you like being indoors, outdoors or both?



- Do you shower first, after or both?







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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 04-07-2007 - 8:19am

"...can't find anyone to try anal (who thought men would be more squirmish than girls?)"

I have had anal sex a couple of times in past relationships, but my DH of nearly 16 years is also "squirmish" about it. He talks so badly about it that I never really approached him about wanting the two of us to try it. Finally a few months ago we started discussing it. He wants to wear a condom, just try once, making no promises, etc. Well, everythings ready but him, so we still wait. Honestly, once he tries, he will probably wonder why he made such a big deal out of it. He knows I'm ready, but I told him I'm leaving it up to him so that he doesn't have a bad experience.

It is odd that some guys are this way -- most of the time, you hear about guys practically begging their women to do this and the women saying no!



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Registered: 08-16-2006
Sat, 04-07-2007 - 10:29am

- Do you play with males, females or both?
Male ( just one ).

- Do you use birth control, condoms or both?
Tubaligation.

- Do you give oral before sex, after sex or both?
Oral before.

- Do you have sex vaginally, anally or both?
Vaginal.

- Do you use spit, lube or both?
Saliva always ( unless I'm too soon postmentrual ), occasionally use lubricant.

- Do you like it romantic, rough or both?
Romantic. Sometimes heated and passionate, but never rough.

- Do you like being indoors, outdoors or both?
Both.

- Do you shower first, after or both?
Usually both.

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Sat, 04-07-2007 - 1:17pm

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Sat, 04-07-2007 - 1:49pm
Hi Luvvy! Nice to see you here :) For a change, I have the cup of coffee for you!


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Registered: 04-01-2007
Sat, 04-07-2007 - 1:54pm

- Do you play with males, females or both? Females, and only DW at that.

- Do you use birth control, condoms or both? Birth Control; Condoms if Antibiotics have recently been used.

- Do you give oral before sex, after sex or both? Before

- Do you have sex vaginally, anally or both? So far only vaginally, but wanting to try anally.

- Do you use spit, lube or both? Both

- Do you like it romantic, rough or both? Both

- Do you like being indoors, outdoors or both? Haven't yet tried outdoors, but pretty sure I'd like it, too.

- Do you shower first, after or both? Either/or.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 04-07-2007 - 3:01pm

"- Do you have sex vaginally, anally or both? So far only vaginally, but wanting to try anally."

Does your DW know that you want to try this? If so, what is her reaction?



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Registered: 11-15-2006
Sat, 04-07-2007 - 4:54pm

- Do you play with males, females or both? I am female so I play only with dh who is a male

- Do you use birth control, condoms or both? IUD-monogomous for 28 years, only use condoms on some toys.

- Do you give oral before sex, after sex or both? Before, during, after, whenever the mood strikes

- Do you have sex vaginally, anally or both?
just oral and vaginal
- Do you use spit, lube or both? Both

- Do you like it romantic, rough or both? Oh both for sure. There are times where sweet soft sex is what we need and other times Lustful rough sex is what the Doctor ordered. Fortunatly hubby and I are in the mood for the same type or at least communicate well what we want so it all is good, no all is great.

- Do you like being indoors, outdoors or both? Mostly indoors, other than being in a car..is that in or outdoors?

- Do you shower first, after or both? No difference to us, we often shower together and have sex while there but we don't shower just to have sex or just because we had sex.



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Registered: 04-01-2007
Sun, 04-08-2007 - 5:11pm
Yes, she knows. We have talked about it several times. I think she's a little afraid that it might hurt, and she has typically been a little slow in venturing out into new pleasures. However, she has yet to dislike something new we've tried once she actually tries it. I'm willing to wait, though; or even never try. It has to be a joint decision.

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