how does woman know that man is in lust
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how does woman know that man is in lust
| Tue, 11-16-2004 - 8:41pm |
I've never been in a relationship and I'm 23. I'm also a virgin. How does a woman know that a man has sexual desire for her? What are the signs? like kissing on the neck? dirty talk or what? the way he looks or what?

I would have to caution against even saying on that, LOL, but I'll try anyway. You see, what be signs for one man be signs for another.
If you're curious as to how you can tell a man is "interested" in you, thats a different story. The most I've read when it comes to that is the ol' factor. When he shows more attention than normal, AND, more attention than he does others, then YES he does have some interest in you.
As always, there is caution as to whether it is selfish for his own needs or whether it is genuine because he simply likes your style/personality. If he pushes for physical romance and seems less interested in the 'you' of that relationship, then obviously you'll have to discern that red flag for yourself.
Now, if you're really just wondering what signs of "lust" actually are, I guess its difficult as to where to start. I guess I don't know, uncontrolled erection, sexual advances, suggestive phrases...list is a bit long I suppose and that would depend on the privacy of the setting as well.
Maybe the others could help a little bit. :)
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I'd love to help a bit more, but it's hard when the question is out of context.
Miss Macademia...are you able to give us a little background on your question? Is there a specific situation that you're referring to?
That's one of those things that can only be answered with "when it happens, you'll know".
Why would you word it that way....when a man is in "lust"? Because you're 23, and never been in a relationship? I hope you're not willing to settle for "lust" which means he's "horny", and he'll take sex wherever he can get it, with no feelings. If you want a relationship, it's not usually built on lust, but on true feelings. Unfortunately, those feelings may not last, and the relationship may not last either......but have enough self respect to find someone who cares about YOU, not what he can get from you for his own gratification.
Again, it's a huge question with the answer having many variables. If you really want to have an accurate answer, please provide some detailed background on your relationship.
For example: Are you in a relationship at present? If so, is this an issue you are currently dealing with? Why do you question his desire for you? Are you trying to figure out how to tell if he's horny - or - is this a broader thing about him finding you sexually attractive?
But to keep it short, if your relationship is healthy and loving, lust should be a given.
Oh my GOSH does that sum it allll up for us men, huh? RAOFLMHO!!!!!!!!!
"...when it happens...............YOU'LL KNOW!" BOY will you know! LOL!!!
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