How hard??

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Registered: 11-07-2007
How hard??
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Sat, 12-08-2007 - 10:33pm
Im curious how hard some of you like it when making love? My dh is definitely into hard sex. The few partners I had before marriage would usually do the "occasional" quick flurry of hard the thrusts, and would then either get too close to coming, or would come. But dh usually goes hard throughout the entire session. I love it, but lately he has been focusing on screwing me with my legs up by my head, and after 15-20 minutes of it hard in that position, it hurts. The same goes for anal in that position. What are you guy's thoughts on the subject?
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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: j12775
Sat, 12-08-2007 - 11:33pm

What difference does it make to you what other men think........the real question is what YOU think.

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Registered: 11-07-2007
In reply to: j12775
Sat, 12-08-2007 - 11:57pm
Om, I was actually asking for other women's opinion. Sorry about the confusion there. Also, I never said anything about not telling him. I have, and we slow down. I was actually just curious what other women like when it comes to that.
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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: j12775
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 1:11am
Oops, sorry.......I saw "guys" and I was thinking I was on another board.......my bad!
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: j12775
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 8:20am
I like it mixed up, but we probably have more of what you are determining as "hard sex" than not. I do enjoy it, but going for that long can get painful, especially if you're doing it often. I've never had "hard anal sex", so I don't have experience to share with that. I have had anal sex, and in those experiences, I can't imagine that I would want it to be as rough as I like regular intercourse to be.




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Registered: 10-15-2006
In reply to: j12775
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 10:32am

Im curious how hard some of you like it when making love?


DH is a very strong, physical man....his "hard" play is somewhat unintentional. When he is feeling his most passionate he is exceptionally vigorous and I do, occasionally,

Mrs P

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Registered: 12-03-2007
In reply to: j12775
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 1:30pm

I hate to say this (sorry guys)

TLC
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: j12775
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 2:26pm
Welcome to the board, shadow1995, and thanks for joining in. You'll find there's a lot going on here, so feel free to jump in whenever you would like -- the more the merrier!




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Registered: 12-03-2007
In reply to: j12775
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 3:28pm

Misty


Thanks for the welcome, I have been poking around on here for a few days and you all seem great.

TLC
TLC
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Registered: 03-04-2007
In reply to: j12775
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 10:38pm

Can I add something?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: j12775
Fri, 01-18-2008 - 11:48pm

If he's only an FWB why can't you tell him?