how to have anal sex with my man

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Registered: 10-03-2006
how to have anal sex with my man
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Wed, 04-04-2007 - 9:03pm

Hi ! This is my first time posting here. My husband and I decide to start exploring more in our sex life but I'm don't have any idea how to play with his ass in a way that he enjoys it!
Any ideas??

Thanks Keona

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 10:41pm

Welcome to the board keona. I know that many guys like prostate massages, strap-on play, and play with toys, but my guy isn't into anal play. I hope some of the other posters will stop by and share some tips with you.

Here's an article from Amy Levine where you may also find some helpful advice.

How do I give my guy anal pleasure?
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638358_650082,00.html





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Registered: 10-03-2006
Wed, 04-04-2007 - 10:48pm
Thank you :)
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Registered: 04-05-2007
Thu, 04-05-2007 - 8:28pm
well, as a man, I enjoy more penetrating my lover during anal sex than for her to play with my ass, on ocassion, I ask her to very gently finger me (after lots of lubrication) while she performs oral on me, I find that to be very estimulating and enjoyable, maybe you want to try that for a starter and see how he feels about it.
James
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Registered: 10-03-2006
Thu, 04-05-2007 - 8:41pm
thanks I'll try that!
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Thu, 04-05-2007 - 9:41pm
Welcome to the board James. I'm glad you decided to join in.


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Registered: 04-05-2007
Fri, 04-06-2007 - 12:40pm
I forgot to tell you, NO FINGERNAILS !!!
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Registered: 10-03-2006
Fri, 04-06-2007 - 2:02pm
LOL Now I need to cut mines!!! You just caught me I was going to try tonite!!!
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Registered: 04-05-2007
Fri, 04-06-2007 - 3:11pm

better late than never, good luck and please rememeber lubrication and go in very, very, slow, you may want to try your little finger first, and then switch to your middel finger later depending on his reaction, also start by performing oral and never stop doing that, playing in his backyard should come later. Hope you both enjoy !!

James

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 04-06-2007 - 6:44pm
If you and your husband both want to receive anal sex comportably use silicone based lube. Many people make the mistake of using water or oil based on anal sex. You can find silicone lube in any sex store. That way your anal sex wont hurt at all.
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Registered: 10-03-2006
Fri, 04-06-2007 - 7:32pm
Thanks i will ! :)
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