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How to initiate a hand Job
| Fri, 01-21-2005 - 9:44pm |
What is the best way to initiate a mutual hand job with a female friend? What would not offend the lot of you?
| Fri, 01-21-2005 - 9:44pm |
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Actually, I have a question about this HJ stuff. What is it about 'cumming on your breasts' that guys find so HOT? I don't mind it, I mean, I suppose it has to go somewhere. But I find that some guys seem preoccupied with it squirting all over a woman's bare chest. Why? I just don't get it......hmmmm.....
OK... so it's something 'deep' and 'sentimental.' It's a turn-on because it's as if she is accepting a very personal part of you....? I think I can understand that. Next time, I'll be all enthusiastic about examining and playing with the 'gift' --lol-- if I REALLY like the guy
-sammy
Sammy's got it right and so does sumguy13.
But on the topic, I've always found most girls don't particularly like their hand guided to my penis. If you've been with a girl before it might be a sexy thing to do, especially if you know she likes to watch you touch yourself. But if you are in the beginning of a relationship, then she'll reach out and touch when she's ready to. If she's not reaching for you, spend more time on her, give her more attention. Just kiss and touch and fondle. Help her get ready before you expect her to be initiating a hand job.
And by the way sammy, it's the greatest thing in the world to have a girl who admires every part of you including your semen. And if you don't admire that part of them, move on to someone else.
>>It's a turn-on because it's as if she is accepting a very personal part of you....? <<
I suppose that's part of it. If she's cool with you cumming on her breasts it is more intimate than squirting into a tissue. I thoroughly enjoy ejeculating on and over her vulva too - that's pretty sexy too. But breasts are good. One of the favourite body parts, a great visual combining the two things and it's really cool that she's relaxed and "sexy" enough to want to do something like that.
I think you're assuming that ALL men are the same, though, and they aren't. Some men are more attached to their semen than others and get a thrill seeing it shot all over their lover's face or body.
My DH has never been interested in doing that and doesn't understand what's so thrilling about it for other men. Yes, it happens as a result of sexual activity at times, but it's not something he tries to do.
So, no, not all men get thrilled seeing their semen handled, examined or shot all over their partner. It's just a bodily fluid.
Edited 1/24/2005 6:01 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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