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how to introduce lube
| Thu, 11-18-2004 - 3:59pm |
I have a date with a new partner, and I'm always feel embarrassed to bring up the subject of using a lubricant. I don't lubricate enough on my own. I always worry guys will think they don't arouse me, which is not the case. Anyone have a similar situation? Are guys turned off by women who don't lubricate much? thanks.

Hi nygal! I agree with weird_me2 and suggest bringing it up or simply bringing it out when either the issue of protection is or when the condom itself is. This to me is the obvious appropriate time bring this to light.
I remember one lady back in the past mentioning that she had said "Sometimes I just need a little bit of help with the lubrication..." with a shy giggle, and had never had a problem or even felt embarrassed or uncomfortable.
Just an idea I remember, hopefully there'll be some more that can help ya too.
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