How is it like. The first time on TOP?

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Registered: 12-01-2003
How is it like. The first time on TOP?
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Thu, 12-15-2005 - 7:08pm

IVE HAD SEX 3 TIMES IN MY LIFE.. ALL 3 TIMES IN THE SAME POSITION (HIM ON TOP)..
WELL.. I WANT TO BE ON TOP!!!!
IM AFRAID IT WILL HURT.. AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO GET STARTED.. DO I JUST HOP ON HIM??
lol.

HOW WERE YOU GUYS FIRST TIME HAVING SEX ON TOP OF HIM?? DID IT HURT.. WAS IT BETTER??
NEXT TIME.. I DEFINETLY WANT TO BE ON TOP!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 12-15-2005 - 7:29pm

Woman on top (WOT)


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Registered: 12-01-2003
Thu, 12-15-2005 - 7:37pm
THANK TISH.. YOUR THE BEST.
SOUNDS GOOD AND GREAT SEX DIRECTIONS. HAHAHAHA!!
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Registered: 08-12-2002
Thu, 12-15-2005 - 8:05pm

Being on top doesn't hurt. If he has a large penis, then you'll be able to control how far in he goes. But otherwise, the easiest thing to do is to sit on him and move your hips i.e. in circles, back and forth, or even in a square like motion (up, across, down, across) etc. What I particularly like doing to tease my bf is to go all the way down, then ever so slowly pull back up until his tip is just in the entrance, wait for a bit, and then ever so slowly go back down. It doesn't satisfy me in any way, but it's fun watching his reaction.

It takes a bit to get the right angles to hit your gspot. I have also found in the past that with large guys that were heaps bigger than me it was very hard to get my legs in a comfortable position to be able to move freely, and as a consequence I could never quite hit my gspot the way I wanted. Now with my current bf who is of a smaller build I never fail to hit it. It also might help if your bf is thrusting underneath you.

Good luck

Janet

 


 


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Registered: 09-20-2005
Fri, 12-16-2005 - 10:59pm
sex in the WOT position shouldnt hurt, and its a great position for being in control of your pleasure. For me its a great way to hit my g-spot as well as get lots of clitoral stimulation w/o actually aiming to do so. And as I was told tonite and have read, men really prefer WOT..to them they are getting an amazing view of your body, they get to watch your reactions, their hands are free to roam your body, yours are free to do the same...guys think you look much sexier on top..so go for it and have a great time :)
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 12-18-2005 - 11:16am

Naleiya,

For me & Mrs. Para, WOT wasn't something we feared at all when trying it the first time.

Was it something PERFECT? No, not really, but neither was anything else we tried the first time.

Whenever trying something "newer" to us, we just keep in mind that it does NOT have to be perfect and that we are trying it because at least one of us really really wants it. We're okay with practicing or enjoying what we can till it works out the way we or one of us wants...so long as we remember that things are a-okay to be awkward and not so perfect the first time NOR every single time. To us, is the key that many couples forget about in their intimate time together.

With WOT in particular, we personally enjoy it because it gives her the control that SHE wanted during intercourse. She controls the penetration and the depth and the movement HER way...I and many men in their own relationships actually enjoy that part.

Hope the replies helped! :)

 

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Registered: 03-14-2006
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 11:39am
The first time I was on top, it hurt a little bit. After a while though, I got used to it and I love being in control. It is amazing and my husband loves the view!