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| Sun, 03-18-2007 - 6:20pm |
Most of the time sex..the actual penetration..lasts about a minute and sometimes it drives me crazy
When people say they have sex for an hour..or even ten minutes haha..is it actual intercourse or does that include foreplay???

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Very few guys can last for an hour of intercourse, and very few women would even want that.....you'd get pretty sore!
Why does it drive YOU crazy? It probably doesn't make your partner very happy, either! He CAN train himself to last longer with the "stop & start" method, but that takes time and practice.
As for you, if you're getting enough foreplay, and you're being satisfied during foreplay, it shouldn't be making you crazy. Most women (80+%) don't have orgasms from intercourse anyway......yes, we enjoy it, but without additional clitoral stimulation, it doesn't happen....that's why women need foreplay, to get theirs first, then move on to intercourse which is what gets most guys off.....then everyone is happy. I'm sure he's not happy with what's happening either.
You didn't say how long you've been together. Many times in a new relationship, it's just nervousness, and will improve with time as he gets more comfortable with you.
Is he young? From my experience, the older men become, the longer they can last. The flip side of that is the younger a guy is, the quicker he can recover from ejaculation. If he is cumming so quickly, perhaps there is too much foreplay for him. If he is overly aroused, he's looking to cross the finish line. Have him cool his jets a bit prior to penetration, and it should last a bit longer (as he will have to build the arousal up again).
Also, if he does cum so quickly, once he recovers, he should be able to last much longer. If he invest the energy to keep you aroused during the recovery process, you will probably find that the second (or more) penetration will last longer.
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