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| Sat, 11-06-2004 - 3:01pm |
This is a little embarassing, but I am a virgin and my boyfriend and I have been talking about having intercourse and I am wondering how long it lasts. I know that it is very different for everyoen and at different times but I have no idea and am nervous as to what to expect and would like to know what type of expectant time range it will last. Thanks for those who reply!

Have you got the whole contraception thing sorted out?
I personally feel that communication is essenial, perhaps try talking to him, tell him you are nervous. You may wish to tell him you want it gentle and slow to begin with, tell him what it is you want and perhaps at least it can start like tha so you feel happier and more at ease.
The first time can make you a little nervous but if you love him and he loves you then I am sure you will both have a lovely time. And yes, remember to be protected. =)
-x-Robyn-x-
"There is always some madness in love, but there is also always some reason in madness. New lovers are nervous and tender, but smash everything. For the heart is an organ of fire. Every night I cut out my heart. But in the morning it was full again. We die, we die rich with lovers and triumphs, tastes we have swallowed, bodies we have... entered and swum up like rivers."
If he's trying to talk you into it, and you're not sure about it, then DON'T!!! Giving in to him is NOT going to keep him interested, and saying no is not going to make him leave you......not if he truly cares for you.
With my first time it was exceptionally quick, no protection because we didn't really mean to do it, lasted about 10 seconds because of no protection and it was silly. I cried the entire night afterwards. I did go out with him for 2 and a half years after, so in some ways he was the right person, in some ways he wasn't. But 3 years down the road I am still wishing that my first time had been different. So make sure you do it exactly how you want and make it special.
As Green said, if he loves you he will wait and believe me, wait for a long time if they love you for you and not for sex. Just have a great time and be happy, don't do anything you're not happy or comfortable with 100%.
-x-Robyn-x-
Jim