how long did you wait??

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Registered: 06-03-2005
how long did you wait??
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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 10:33pm

How long do you guys wait when you have a new boyfriend or girlfriend? or if you dont have a new one how long did you wait until you did it with your current hubby/hubbess??

i waited 5 months after my bf and i started going out, but ive known the man for almost 4 years and were best friends.

and just to throw it in there.... you first time was with who?? not whne just who?

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Registered: 07-12-2005
Wed, 07-20-2005 - 10:47pm

Dh and I dated for six months before we had intercourse. We had some fun and feeling up around the fourth month and that led to the actual sex part of our intimacy.


First time was with a highschool boyfriend when I was 16. Even then, we waited about six months before taking the plunge. I guess that's the magic number for me.

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Registered: 05-27-2005
Wed, 07-20-2005 - 11:26pm
My bf and I waited 2.5 months...when it finally happened... we couldn't keep our hands off each other.
We got to Vegas, didn'[t' even pick up our luggage from the car, got to hotel room and thew it down in 5 minutes!!!
We're still together after 3.5 years.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 12:15am

>>How long do you guys wait when you have a new girlfriend?<<

Varies depending on the situation. Sometimes it was immediately and then developed into a relationship, other times it was a couple of months.

>>how long did you wait until you did it with your current hubby/hubbess??<<
We met through business several times over a 6 month period before we had sex. She visited me at work one night when it was clear that there was a spark between us, but before we'd dated. After I finished work that evening we basically had sex immediately. So depending on your point of view it was either no wait at all, or 6 months.

First time? A friend of the family that I grew up with. She was a very curious and assertive girl.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 12:33am

DH and I waited about 12 hours ;-)

My first: I was 15 and it was with a boyfriend that I'd been dating for about 9 months. He was 17 or 18 and it took me ages to talk him into it. I was like Westridge's "curious and assertive" first girl.

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 12:56am

With my current boyfriend, we waited four days lol. We had been friends for a few months beforehand though, so we knew each other pretty well.

My first time was when I was 18. I had been with my ex for three months. He was the first real serious boyfriend I had.

Janet

 


 


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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 7:27am
First time was with Dh, I was 19 he was 22.

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Registered: 07-01-2005
Thu, 07-21-2005 - 10:26am
my dh and i waited 2 yrs to have intercourse, fooled around for a yr or so before intercourse
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Thu, 07-21-2005 - 10:37am

With my DH, we waited a little over 3 mos. for everything but making out heavily.

With a former fiance', who was my 1st partner, we waited 2 years for intercourse.




Edited 7/21/2005 10:38 am ET ET by katmandoo2001