How long do you wait?
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How long do you wait?
| Fri, 12-10-2004 - 8:01am |
Here's a discussion/survey for you all. How long do you typically wait to go to bed with the person you're dating? Assume you're in a relationship that you both are comfortable and attracted to each other. What's the average, hours, days weeks, years? Just curious as to what you guys say...
Laura


-Mel
With my current boyfriend, I waited three dates, but that's because I knew he was very into me, and I had a great connection and knew he didn't just want me for sex. It would just depend on the guy. If it was a flaky guy, I would obviously wait longer if I thought he could be just using me. However, if i just wanted a booty call I would sleep with him on the first date, hehe
Well, I've only had sex with two men ... the first was my xh ... we were in high school ... we knew each other for about 9 months, dated for about one before I caved.
The second, the man I'm dating now, took 3 months. I was fresh from a divorce; he hadn't had sex in 7 years. We both wanted to be in the right place emotinoally before we did the deed. I'm glad we waited.
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