how to make him ask for it

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Registered: 05-26-2007
how to make him ask for it
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Sat, 05-26-2007 - 10:48pm
my fiancee works in a far away city,,so when he comes(4 days each 2 monthes),he always want to spend his time with me and we have alot of sex(oral),but when he leaves i got so horny.......i spent all my nights wishing he will ask for phone sex..but he never do..am a little shy from asking him..what shall i do???
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 05-26-2007 - 11:16pm

Welcome to the board possycat2007.

It can be difficult to come out of your shell early on in a relationship, but each little step you take, makes the next step that much easier to take.

Perhaps you should try asking him what kinds of sexual things he would like to do with you. He might bring it up himself, or at least it will open a dialogue between the two of you.



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Registered: 02-20-2007
Sat, 05-26-2007 - 11:43pm
You could try emailing it to him. That way you're not actually "talking" to him, it's always easier to say things in a letter or email rather than face to face or when you're on the phone.
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Sun, 05-27-2007 - 9:01am

Good Morning!


I see that you refer to this man as your fiancee. Assuming you intend to marry this man, I would ask why you feel shy about the person you will share your life with?


Learning early on in a relationship to express your sexual feelings and desires all but guarantees a fulfilling and mutually satisfying sexual relationship. I'm sure he would love to know what it is

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Registered: 05-26-2007
Sun, 05-27-2007 - 12:09pm
thank you for your advice mrspe and i'll try it tonight and see where it'll take me