How many men have you had sex with be...

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Registered: 06-25-2005
How many men have you had sex with be...
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Sun, 07-31-2005 - 8:26pm

How many men have you had sex with before marriage (or age 30 if single)?



  • 0-3
  • 4-6
  • 7-9
  • 10-13
  • 14-16
  • 17-20
  • 21-25
  • more than 25
  • more than 35


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Registered: 11-26-2004
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 1:05pm

Five. My first boyfriend I met when I was 14 and had sex with him for the first time when I was almost sixteen. Dated him until I was 17 1/2. After him and before I met my DH at almost 20, I had three short-term relationships(less than six months each in which I had sex, and one one-night-stand.




Edited 8/3/2005 1:20 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
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Registered: 06-25-2005
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 6:25pm

To Rain_dancer and others that are interested,
So did you tell (or intend to tell) your husband when he asked you for the number? If your answer is yes, would you tell him before marriage or wait until after the wedding?

Thanks gals for your votes.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 10:53pm
We never asked each other. We just thought it a private matter, I guess. We told each other about the relationships we had each been in, so we pretty much guessed that sex was involved in those cases, and I also figured in some sex outside of a relationship as well. It just didn't concern me, and obviously it didn't concern him. I think that even if I were single today, I wouldn't ask. I just don't see the point. ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 12:58am

Well, it's not a given that a man will ask about your sexual past, in terms of numbers though. I told my DH about my past fiance' after we became intimate but not before. And no details. That was none of his business.

And I never asked him anything either....but he volunteered that he had been a technical virgin before me. We shared more over the years but there was never any pressure to tell anything.

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