How many more partners do you want?

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How many more partners do you want?
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Wed, 03-02-2005 - 9:57pm

If you could have your druthers, how many additional people would you have sex with before you die?

(Please don't say anything so corny as one or zero.)

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Wed, 03-02-2005 - 10:23pm

Ok
If possible, I would have as many as I could. I guess thats about 80% of all women on earth.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 12:16am

Why is saying one or zero corny? Don't you believe that people can find a match who will leave them satisfied forever? Very sad.

Anyway, I have to say zero. I have a wonderful husband, and really don't want any other partners. Quantity has never equalled quality in my estimation.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 12:23am

I don't see anything "corny" about being satisfied with one person, if it's the right person. That's no cornier than fantasizing a number.......let's see.....how does six sound?

You say how many "additional"? Additional to what?.....what if there's already been 25 or 50?

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 12:36am

How many other people? That's like asking "How long is a piece of string?"

At the moment, I'd have to say that I'm perfectly happy with the one that I have. The sex is pretty damn good most of the time, it's interesting, fun and has a bit of variety in it. She's sexy most of the time and isn't too high maintenance. ;-) Why would I want anyone else?

Seriously though, there are often celebrities and the like that I sometimes have a little fantasy about. Since there are no rules with this game, I suppose if I spot someone that I find attractive every few days and I can, theoretically, have no strings attached sex,.... then I guess that'd be 80-100 a year and I've probably got another 35 years left in me, so that's anywhere between 2800 and 3500 women... sounds like fun to me.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 12:43am
Gee, I guess I'm corny then because I have to say 0! IF I wanted more than what I have in my DH, then I wouldn't have gotten married! Sex, for me, is nothing if there's no connection and bond beyond the physical....and that takes time to develop.


Edited 3/3/2005 12:45 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 7:31am

Why not say 0 or 1, what's so corny about it?


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Registered: 11-04-1999
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 8:04am

My answer is a two parter. As a male at the end of divorce proceedings who hasn't had sex in more than a year, I would say as many as possible.

On the other hand, if my stbx would be willing to reconcile, I would give up looking for other partners in the blink of an eye. I guess my answer would be that I want as many as it takes to find my life's partner.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 8:22am

Hmmmmm, a different one every 4-5 days......an interesting thought. My next thought, where do you find the "recruits"?

Think about it, it probably would be like the proverbial "kid in the candy shop". Probably after the first 6 months or so, you'd be screaming, NO MORE! NO MORE!

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 8:35am

Zero. I love sex with DH and wouldn't trade it for sex with anyone(or many) else.

There was once a thread on another board that asked a similar question. "If you could have sex with everyone you desired without emotional attachment or sex with only one person you loved, what would you choose?" It was unamimous(and both men and women answered). One life partner.

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 8:43am

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