How many more partners do you want?

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How many more partners do you want?
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Wed, 03-02-2005 - 9:57pm

If you could have your druthers, how many additional people would you have sex with before you die?

(Please don't say anything so corny as one or zero.)

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Mon, 03-07-2005 - 4:46pm
Kat...<<<.A momentary attraction can in no way compare to a lifetime of experiences and history with one partner. It will be what it is......a momentary physical attraction. And IF that was really satisfying down to your core, then it wouldn't be necessary to keep repeating the experience with someone new>>>. ..Part of the problem with SOME people who keep looking for that deep down feeling with someone new is the fact that they will never find it until that special bond has been formed..And many of these people just dont understand that. They dont feel it with a particular person, so they move on to the next..and it becomes a catch 22..Their interpersonal skills do not allow them to get to know someone intimately, they only rely on the physical awareness they got to know. Because the type of person Im talking about only gets to know them on a physical level, intimacy never gets a chance to form because they didnt feel it so they are gone...
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 6:18pm

Yes, I agree Hump. Some people seem to believe that "love" should provide a continuous sexual thrill and once the carnal knowledge is realized and the mystery is gone, that they must not be "in love" anymore.

I don't understand why they don't understand that real love changes and matures and that sex, while still very important, isn't the sole purpose for maintaining a relationship.

Another good reason for addressing real life issues in school, huh?

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 9:50pm
Zero. The one I'm with. You'll just have to accept my 'corny' answer. Sorry, but can't dictate what other's answers will be.


Edited 3/7/2005 9:51 pm ET ET by tally33
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Registered: 02-01-2005
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:22pm
Well, I'm a virgin, and am planning on only sleeping with one person in my life. It's not corny at all, it's just what I want.


Edited 3/7/2005 10:25 pm ET ET by lothiriel2000

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