How many women are ok with their men ...

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Registered: 12-18-2003
How many women are ok with their men ...
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Wed, 05-18-2005 - 3:49pm

How many women are ok with their men viewing porn



  • I am ok with it
  • I watch it with him
  • I allow him his sexual freedoms
  • I hate it and I get angry or jealous
  • It makes me feel unattractive
  • What I don't know won't hurt me
  • Get real, it's the way of the world


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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2005
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 3:51pm
I answered for my DW-She hates porn. Now that she is HL there is no need for me to look at it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2003
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 3:55pm
Please forgive me for asking, I am new at the message board but what is HL. You said there is no reason for you to look any more, What made you look before if I may ask. I have a very hard time with my SO viewing sites and although I try hard to get over it, I can't seem to master it. Thank you for your input.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2005
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 3:58pm
Frankly I hid my viewing from DW. The reason I looked at it was DW had ZERO interest in sex. That changed completely on 1/1/05.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2003
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 4:01pm
That is awesome. Now, my question is what if he is the one with the disinterest in sex? I am what some call "not normal", I want it all the time. Where it used to be every night, it has now become once every two weeks or so.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2005
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 4:05pm

You may not want to hear this, but if a guy doesn't want sex very often with his woman but looks at porn all the time IMO there is a BIG problem.

I gotta run. Feel free to look for me online tomorrow or to e-mail me thru ivillage.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2004
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 4:09pm
I had told my husband up front b4 we got married that I watch porn and he didn't have a problem with it.

Kimmie

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2003
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 4:24pm
Do the two of you watch it together? How would you advise someone to get comfortable with it? I just want to be confident and I am my worst enemy when it comes to that.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 4:24pm
I voted *I watch it with him* but I'm fine if he watches it alone also.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2003
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 4:28pm
Thank you for sharing that. I am trying to come to grips with this whole issue. I want him to feel that he can be himself. I just have a problem with him seeing women that are goregous and wondering if he would rather be with someone like that. It is hard.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 5:28pm
My vote was for allowing my DH his sexual freedom, or privacy, but that doesn't include porn use by his own choice.

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