How much sex is too much..

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Registered: 03-27-2003
How much sex is too much..
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Sun, 06-12-2005 - 2:20pm

also what is considered healthy now with sex? okay is it considered healthy to want to have sex every single day, or only want it every 1-2 days? Since you want sex everyday does that make the person or yourself a nympho? I need to know! My husband wants sex everyday and sometimes twice a day, I don't think it's healthy. I joke with him calling him names most women hate but he takes it lightly, I even called him a nympho. me personally I could go several days even weeks and sometimes months without having any sex, but I feel if I don[t have sex with him, it isn't fair for him to suffer. So back to the original question how much sex it too much????????

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 3:28pm
I don't think there is such a thing as too much or too little sex as long as both partners are happy and satisfied with how often they have sex.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 4:41pm

Libidos change. Next month you may want more and he may want less. Right now, if it's more than you want, then it's too much for YOU. Others might love it twice a day! But you're you, and it's up to you how much is too much.

It's also rare that partners match completely. The solution is to talk about it, and find a compromise that you're both happy with.

It's not really doing your husband a favor if you're doing JUST because he wants to, and you're heart and mind aren't really into it. Believe me he won't SUFFER if you say no occasionally. If I were your husband, I'd feel lousy if I realized that you weren't really into it, only doing it out of pity. And you, doing it out of sense of obligation....you'll eventually get turned off completely, and then there will be REAL problems. Talk to the guy, and tell him how you feel.