How often do you do Anal?
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How often do you do Anal?
| Sat, 07-21-2007 - 10:58pm |
I think anal is so great but I only do it approx once every 2 or 3 months.
| Sat, 07-21-2007 - 10:58pm |
I think anal is so great but I only do it approx once every 2 or 3 months.
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My DH has always had an aversion to anal sex. I have had anal a couple of times with previous partners, and in the 16 years I have been married to him, I have only fantasized about it. Because he voiced his opinions so strongly about it, I never even brought up the fact that I had experienced and enjoyed anal -- until more recently. Over the past 6 months or so, we have been discussing it, and he says he's going to give it a try .... I'm still waiting. We joke about "the wait", but I'm done bringing it up. He does bring it up sometimes, so I know that it's still on his mind.
I think we'll have to start there before we ever even consider anal play on him.
my partner in the siggy exchange
Anal play/penetration on both of us is usually a part of foreplay, it's rare when we don't engage in some kind of anal play with all our sex sessions.
As for how often, I guess your own body would give you the best indication as to how often. Since the anus isn't exactly designed for it, I'm sure it'll let you know if/when you need to slow down and back off some.
I had a GF years ago that enjoyed anal like you do. She made it so much fun. She could orgasm while getting anal and loved it.
My current wife thinks it's a horrible thought. That last time I brought it up she made jokes about my gay desires surfacing.
Oh no, I have never thought my partners may have gay tendencies, hmmmmm, I have heard this a few times now.
Kendenrayne
Have you ever tried anal stimulation without the anal IC?
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